[quote=“KA101, post:76, topic:6219”][quote=“Bonevomit, post:75, topic:6219”][quote=“Kevin Granade, post:73, topic:6219”]Telling someone you know what their motivations are, and that by implication they’re lying about them is an excellent way to make things personal. So is telling people to “chill out” when you’re arguing with them.
At this point you’re coming across as trolling. You made some vague accusations about “the community treating things like a national emergency”, ignored any requests to clarify or point out instances of this happening, and now you’re focusing on irrelevancies and making things personal rather than resolving anything.[/quote]
Fuck, I guess I got carried away. Sorry I was a cunt.
Hey, even someone as great as me has bad days.[/quote]
Yeah, you were being a jagoff. (That “as great as me” may lead people to think that you still are. Careful!) “Jerk”, “troll”, and other such negative terms could apply there, too. I’ve flipped out at people too; it’s not something to be proud of but it happens. Now, to not make the space Crappy like that again?
[spoiler=Look out for that slur there]
However, “cunt”, no matter the locale you’re from or intervening etymology, is originally a slang term for female genitalia, and typically used as a derogatory. By using it as a negative term, people get the idea that the genitalia are a bad thing–and by extension, folks who have such anatomy are inferior/Bad too.
And that’s not so good. Some women are working to actively re-cast the term as a positive one; however, this wasn’t such a usage. (IME, men can best help with this by not adding to the problem.)
So let’s go with “jerk” or something similarly non-gendered next time, OK? (“Jagoff” is Pittsburghese, so if you use that people may think you’re from Pittsburgh.)
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You really feel the need to call someone out for saying “cunt” on the internet? Jesus, Bonevomit was 120% right about people being too easily offended here.