I didn’t start out actively hostile. I turned hostile when I saw your colors. As a contributor, I would expect unfitting or rejected changes to be handled gracefully. Instead, I witnessed pull requests silently closed after weeks of silence, rejections to things with no concrete reasoning provided whatesoever, and the removal of legitimate and interesting gameplay features for the sake of realism alone - often half-assed and unfinished removals.
You lead the game, Kevin, but the vast majority of additions and creations aren’t yours. They’re the product of a large amount of independent contributors over a long amount of time. I don’t find it an unreasonable expectation that I be treated like a human being in my works, but every interaction I’ve had from you during contributions have been negative or indifferent, even from the get-go where I was very neutral and compliant in my changes.
Does it make me entitled to want my voice to mean something as a contributor? Maybe it does. But I think it makes you just as childish as I am entitled to claim the project is yours and yours alone and to show the lack of professionalism you have shown and continue to show on a regular basis in pull requests, commits, and Discord from both personal viewings and anecdotal evidence.