I know how you feel, “How hard is it to hit something in front of you and why is throwing more accurate than hitting?” I get frustrated with this all the time, especially whenever I’m wearing a backpack (which is about 100% of the time). I think this part of the game is inherently flawed; I was trying to hit a regular, non-hostile dog for 30 turns, all misses. I had a torso encumbrance of 4, +1 to hit bonus weapon, LV 2 melee, 8 dex and 9 PER, deft, LV 1 bashing weapons. I got frustrated and threw the pipe at the dog, who was about 2 spaces away, and got a crit hit, which some how killed it ( i only had 8 strength and LV 1 throwing!)
How in the hell is it easier to throw when your torso is encumbered? Never mind throwing to kill, just throwing accurately should be harder than hitting something with a sizable melee weapon.