Can’t comment on beds, but I think the shift of most things into recipe books is sort of a good idea until skills get a lot more balanced out. Before, it meant that getting up to level 4 in whatever gave you access to pretty much everything and you could just make spears or whatever till you got there, whereas now it forces you to explore and find the recipe books.
I think that getting the character to explore rather than just grind up is a noble goal (however unrealistic the outcome may become) and the whole ‘blank slate character’ thing is normal for rpgs really. Obviously this needs better balance, but I do think this is a much better system overall.