Agree with @tarburst98, immediacy is the difference. If you can schedule fulfilment of your compulsions, they aren’t all that compulsive.
Yes, something like that, though in that case you’ve opted in to automatic inhaler use so it’s not lack of agency, it’s delegation. Other examples are auto-pickup and safe mode.
This is actually a trait (“shouter” I think?) and an example of loss of agency, since there’s not much you can do about it. It’s pretty far from demonstrating that, “the entire game about juggling agency and urgency?” though.
Your other examples are similar, though the self-harm example starts moving into a “potentially triggering” area, and I’d be hesitant to add it.
This is pretty much how I was thinking of it, it has a decent chance of really upsetting someone if they didn’t know it was going to happen, but if you opt-in because you want the handling of addiction to be more challenging it’d be great.